When Love Passes By

Nothing is learned without much strife.

Nothing is gained without a certain measurement of loss.

All good deeds - or all thought-to-be good deeds could simply evoke latent feelings.

We are the experiments, as we are the experimenting people.



Such a joke .. a practical one .. to avoid it all of the time .. to advise people from treading upon its path .. yet, to fall in it .. in its pit .. without caution and care!!



"Where witty men fail to use their intellectual powers, dumbness dwell."



I have been lost in thoughts these passing days. Not comfortable thoughts, I ought to confess. In nature, I would not claim to be an adventurer, yet, as time summons the trials, it seems that I am much of an adventurer (and a reckless one) more than I have ever thought of or even dreamt of!



It is all related to my definition of Life!

For, what is Life?!

This is the eternal question that keeps on asking for a satisfying answer!!

Is life a thread of danger or a net of caution?

Is it an arch of triumph or a broken bow?

Is it a bewitching moment or a breathless night?

A coward's song or a King's dream?

A madman's tale of an idiot's game?

A Life full of Love of a Love full of Life?!



To stop at a point, the last one catches my interest.

L O V E, the sweet illusioned state. What is so important around it that makes us breathlessly sigh and ache? What are its components? Where it begins and ends? How much of hearts can you keep alive in your own heart? And is it a means or just a transient state?!



When love passed me by, I felt special once again. Not that I underestimate my character as many would think. I never underestimate myself, it is too silly to do so. What I mean is that: man is of to entities. The first one begins with himself and stops at his borders. The latter starts from within but is directed to others and is never activated unless 'the other' accepted to do so. It is very to know yourself, but what about the other? What about the other's reactions or feelings or even background? It is too difficult to guess, and when you really Trust, and reach a no-return path for you at least, you only discover at this moment that there was no need for such a thing .. in the first place. And I keep telling myself that it is 'Your fault", yet I know profoundly that it is not anybody's fault.



Things happen because they ought to happen.

What is going to come is going to come.

Don't rush things.

Be at ease.



Everything will come to its place in time.



Wisdoms didn't adopt any mysteries. They just enigmatically charged words with experiences of the centuries. So, each came forged with a heavy burden, one that needs expression at one side, and performance at the other, just to fulfill the credo's will.